Throughout my time and various experiences as a phone sex operator I have always found that the best calls have always been when the time was taken to create a calm and comfortable environment for both parties during a phone sex session. Your environment and surroundings can play a huge part in the way you are feeling and how much you will enjoy and get out of your phone sex session. So I have put together a check list to help you get the ultimate Phone Sex Experience.
1. Lock the door, close your eyes and find somewhere comfortable where you won’t be bothered by any outside world distractions. I normally like to lie down under the blanket or on my couch. Somewhere I can just totally focus on the words that are being spoken.
2. If you have call waiting? Cancel it before you commence the call. Nothing can be more distracting or can kill the mood quicker than if you have someone constantly trying to call you during an erotic phone sex session.
3. Turn off any music or radios. It may seem like a good idea to try and set some ambiance with some soft and sensual music, but trust me once you get going it will be an unwanted distraction.
4. Turn off or dim the lights. The darker the room the more you can focus and fantasise on the words that are being spoken.
5. Speak slowly and talk softly. The slower and softer you speak to each other the more relaxed and aroused you are both going to feel. It is also important to try and talk in your normal tone at the beginning of the call, then as the session goes on try and break into a soft or husky whisper. Try to avoid rushing the pace of the conversation at any point of the conversation.
6. Make the call personal. Call each other by your name or nick name while talking about any topic or subject you feel discussing. This is only a small part of the checklist but can assist in a huge way by making the call that much more personal and sensual.
By keeping all these things in mind when planning your next phone sex session. You will be sure to get the most out of your experience. I know it always helps me.
Hope to hear from you soon.
Love Jade XXXOOO